What to wear to a funeral
Make it personal
Traditionally, people wear black or other dark colours to a funeral. However, many people now choose to celebrate a loved one's life in a more personal way. They may invite guests to wear a favourite colour, something bright, or clothing that reflects the person's personality or interests.
If you're unsure, it's always worth checking with the family or the funeral director beforehand. They'll be happy to let you know if there are any special requests.
Guidance For Attendees
Many men choose to wear a dark suit with a shirt and tie, but this isn't the only option.
Other suitable choices include:
Smart trousers with a collared shirt
A jacket or blazer with smart trousers
A plain jumper worn over a shirt
Smart, comfortable shoes
If you don't own a suit, don't worry. Wearing smart clothing that feels respectful is perfectly appropriate.
For a traditional funeral, many women choose smart clothing in darker colours, although black isn't essential. Navy, charcoal, deep green or burgundy are all suitable choices.
You could wear:
A smart dress with a cardigan or jacket
Tailored trousers or a skirt with a blouse or knitwear
A simple jumper with smart trousers and a coat
Comfortable, smart shoes that are suitable for the weather and the venue
Choose something you feel comfortable wearing, so you can focus on being there to support family and friends.
What you wear is only one small part of attending a funeral. Whether you're dressed formally or following a family's request to wear brighter colours, your presence and support will mean far more than your outfit.
If you have any questions about the service or what's expected, our funeral care team will be happy to help.
In warm, sunny weather choosing light, breathable fabrics such as cotton or linen can help you stay comfortable while still dressing respectfully.
If you're wearing a suit or jacket, it's perfectly understandable to remove it if the weather is particularly warm. You may also want to bring sunglasses or a hat for outdoor services, provided they're appropriate for the occasion.
During the cooler months, it's a good idea to dress warmly, particularly if part of the service takes place outdoors.
Layering can help you stay comfortable without compromising on smart dress. A jumper under a jacket or a plain top beneath a shirt or blouse can add warmth. A smart coat, scarf, gloves and sturdy shoes are also worth considering, along with an umbrella, as weather can be changeable.
Every funeral is different, and the family's wishes should always come first. If they've asked guests to wear bright colours or something that reflects their loved one's personality, it's fine to do so.
If there isn't a specific dress code, it's usually best to avoid clothing that's very casual or likely to distract from the occasion, such as:
Ripped or distressed jeans
Flip-flops or beachwear
Sportswear, including football shirts
Clothing with large logos or slogans
Caps or hats worn indoors (unless for cultural or religious reasons)
Wearing black has long been a symbol of respect and remembrance, and many people still choose it for funerals today.
However, funerals have become much more personal in recent years. Many families now choose to celebrate a loved one's life by asking guests to wear a favourite colour, bright clothing or something that reflects a special interest or hobby.
Whether you wear black or something more colourful, following the family's wishes is what matters most.
If you're uncertain about what to wear, don't worry. You can ask a member of the family or speak to our funeral care team. We'll be happy to let you know if the family has made any special requests.
Above all, remember that your presence is far more important than your outfit. Being there to support family and friends is what people will remember most.
