Letting people know about the death

Telling family and friends

Sharing the news that someone has died is never easy. It can feel overwhelming, especially when you're grieving yourself and aren't sure how to tell the people who need to know.

There's no right or wrong way to do it. Everyone's circumstances are different, so it's important to do what feels right for you and your family.

Sharing the news

You may find it helpful to:

• Decide whether you'd prefer to tell people in person, over the phone or by message.

• Ask close family or friends to help contact others, so you don't have to do it all yourself.

• Keep your words simple. You don't have to find the "perfect" way to say it – people will understand.

Supporting yourself

As you tell others, you'll also be managing your own grief. People often react in different ways. Some may become emotional, others may not know what to say, and some might respond in ways you weren't expecting.

Try to remember that everyone experiences grief differently. Be kind to yourself and accept support from those around you whenever you need it.

Bereavement support

Grief affects everyone in different ways, and there's no set timeline for coping with the loss of someone you love. While family and friends can provide comfort, you may also find it helpful to talk to someone outside your immediate circle.

If you're struggling, your GP can offer advice and refer you to bereavement counselling or other local support services.

You don’t have to face this alone

If you have any questions about what happens after someone dies or would simply like to talk things through, our caring team is here to help. You can contact us at Funeral Care by De Gruchy on 01534 499444, 24 hours a day, 365 days a year.